everyone seems to willfully ignore, or otherwise willingly accept a clearly absurd performance in lieu of what could be a profoundly meaningful, transformative experience.<\/strong> Actually, forget profound. People seem to accept a lot of BS when they should be demanding that their bosses, colleagues, consultants, or conference presenters just get real.<\/p>\nMeetings in which things could be getting done become a series of orations about how things are not getting done. Events that could be unique learning moments become platforms for bloviation. Reports that could proffer an honest accounting and decisive advice become pages of inactionable information. Presenters who could distill one critical idea into a core takeaway read slides instead. And, my own private worst case scenario, an idea that could be well articulated in ten pages somehow morphs into a 220 page book!<\/p>\n
Wait, but WHY?<\/p>\n
What begins as an effort to be nice to others, to not tell the full truth about what we did or did not glean from their work, quickly slides down the slippery slope from protecting other peoples\u2019 feelings to protecting our own comfort. The price we pay for that is respectful use of our time, energy, and capacity.<\/p>\n
Even in the best cases, our time on Earth is limited, and our time at work is limited further. If you\u2019re feeling overtaxed and underserved by the way your days at work are going, consider asking yourself: could I make this better if I were more honest with myself and the people I work with?<\/strong> What truth could I (with kindness and respect) share with them that would help make better use of all of our precious time? Try offering more candid (and, in kind delivery, caring) feedback to someone just one time tomorrow. It\u2019s the least you can do to save you from yourself.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"If you\u2019re feeling overtaxed and underserved by the way your days at work are going, consider asking yourself: could I make this better if I were more honest with myself and the people I work with? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":44,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,28],"tags":[12,32,9],"coauthors":[41],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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